I was pondering the things I learned from Ian. There are many.
Most recently, I learned that everyone should have an “in case I get hit by a bus” file at home that contains all the pertinent passwords, phone unlock code, and account information, as well as a will… Even just a written note saying who is important enough to you to warrant having claim to your stuff. In the order of importance.
Before that though, I learned fun things. I learned positive things.
I learned to not care what other people think and enjoy myself.
I learned to love the things I love with my whole heart.
I learned about music.
I learned about movies.
I learned to love baseball.
I learned that I deserved to be considered and treated well.
I learned the importance of creating mixed tapes thoughtfully.
I learned that it’s ok not to like things.
I learned the joys of karaoke.
I learned it’s possible to love someone with your whole heart and still not be close enough to them.
I learned that someone can bring light into your life that you never knew was missing.
There are so many more things I learned. And I’ll continue to add to the list as I can. Because I think it’s important.
If you’ve lost someone, can you look back and name things you’ve learned?
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